When I'm working from home all day, I'm expected to remember EVERYTHING and use those days to accomplish the "honey do" list and then do my paid work if it fits in. If on a conference call, I should muti-task. If I forget anything, I get the stink eye and bitched at.
If my wife forgets anything, I am told all the things that she accomplished that day or accomplishes normally while also working.
If I list what I did, I get, "Okay, you're supposed to do those things as well as the things you didn't..."
Now granted, this doesn't happen all the time, but yesterday I apparently ruined the world.